DO write out full names
DON’T use initials or nicknames
DO write out “Boulevard”, “Street”, etc.
DON’T write out house numbers and zip codes
DO put men’s names first unless his spouse out ranks him with a title
DON’T use middle initials
DO use Mr, Mrs, Ms, etc.
DON’T abbreviate other titles such as “Doctor” or “Reverend”
DO use Miss for women under 18 years old
DON’T use Ms for all unmarried women 18 or older
DO mail a separate invitation for children over 18 in the same household
DON’T use the husband’s name if addressing to a widow
DO research specific titles for ministers/clergy, elected officials, etc.
DON’T use incorrect titles – when unsure – Google it!
DO include a return address
DON’T use adhesive mailing labels
DO ask people how they’d like to be addressed if you are unsure
DON’T assume or guess
Tip: If you have questions about invitation addressing etiquette contact a local stationery designer and inquire! I know I am always available to help anyone out, client or no client.
